The first kiss in any relationship can be a time of high anxiety. It is a stumbling block for many guys, particularly those who have been out of the dating scene for a long time.
You have good reason to be nervous when kissing her for the first time. The very first kiss is for many women, a way of sensing chemistry and compatibility.
The preliminaries to the kiss is as important as the actual kiss itself. There are many complex inputs and cues, both chemical and romantic that are sensed by women.
Don't think that the first kiss is merely something to get out of the way. The following are three tips on doing it the right way.
1.) You won't make a great impression if you ask her for permission.
Of course you can't just start kissing simply because you want to. You need to know the right moment. When there is a romantic tension and she shows signs that she is attracted to you, that is the time to take action.
Asking her for her permission diminishes the chemistry or "spark" of the kiss. It can cause you to appear indecisive and weak. Women expect to be swept off their feet by a confident and strong man. Now is the time, you must take charge of this moment.
2.) Know her signals of attraction.
Does she find excuses to touch you such as wanting to read your palm? Perhaps she'll stumble and hold on to you for support. Does she "accidentally" bush her hand across yours?
Her eye contact with you is very significant. Is she stealing a few glances your way? Is there plenty of lengthy eye contact?
Does she study your face? Perhaps she spends a lot of time gazing at your lips. Does she tend to lean in close to you?
Is she slightly nervous? Perhaps she fixes or plays with her hair in your presence. Are her pupils dilated?
3.) Begin the kiss slowly, as if in slow motion.
Lean in closer, take her hand, look into her eyes and then her lips and mouth. If there is no resistance, kiss her. A variation to this is to gently play with her hair or cup her face in your hands before kissing.
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